To achieve a "recipient selector" you can add a drop down box (lets say with html fieldname of "thetoemail") with all the values like

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And then in the email action you can set the To: Address to be the placeholder like this

#THETOEMAIL#

Then whent he form is submitted the email will be sent to the email address selected.